Generation Gaps: How We (Mis)Communicate

The Baby Boomer generation is starting to exit the workforce, leaving the reins of leadership to the GenXers.  Through this transition organizations are struggling to balance the work styles and communication preferences of 3  - 4 different generations.   Baby Boomer or member of Generation X, through formal writing or an IM, we all need to communicate with each other.   This is where our real generation gap exists.

In my blog entry, Rudeness at Work, stats reflected that younger employees, by an increase of 28% over older workers, contributed to incivility in the workplace.  Question:  Does this present a framework for identifying age-related differences in work attitudes and behaviors?   Answer:  Yes.  In September of this year CareerBuilder surveyed 3,892 U.S. workers and 2,298 U.S. hiring managers ages 18 and over. The results of this survey, Generational Differences in Work Styles, Communication and Changing Jobs, highlighted the contrasts of the generational trends on how each generation approaches work.  It appears as though this isn’t intentional incivility, it's the result of the generation you grew up in and the differences in generational communication styles.   

CareerBuilder Survey Question:  How Do You Like To Communicate at Work?
 

Face to Face

• 60% (Ages 55+) 
• 55% (Ages 25 - 34)

Email/Text

• 28% (Ages 55+)
• 35% (Ages 25-34)

Phone

• 12% (Ages 55+)
• 10% (Ages 25 - 34)

Baby Boomers, born between 1946 and 1964, are the largest generation born in America to date. The offspring of the Silent Generation, the Boomers experienced* the Vietnam War, the Civil Rights Movement, and the assassinations.   The "We Generation" who were defined by the Cold War and the Space Race. The Boomers recognize the value of relationship building, preferring personal, face to face communication over communicating through technology. Technology is a means of communication, not an exclusive tool to communicate.   Here's where the generation gap comes into play.  The GenX and GenY prefer to use digital communication almost exclusively.

GenXers, born between 1965 and 1980, are defined by Watergate, an era of political corruption, economic inflation, single-parent homes, MTV, the fall of the Berlin Wall, and the Challenger tragedy.  GenXers often prefer direct and straightforward communication.  And as a result, they may appear abrupt.    While the gap between Gen X and Gen Y is much larger due to the rate of technology growth, GenXers are highly techno-literate and don't worry about being outpaced by younger colleagues.   

GenY, born between 1980 - 1999, are "The Millennials,"  the generation of Facebook and MySpace.  Labeled as digital natives, the high-tech environment has shaped their values.  They are defined by computers, TV talk shows and the Oklahoma City bombing.   (The Department of Labor statistics estimate that GenY will compromise more than 40% of the workforce by 2020. Their sheer numbers will transform every life stage entered.)  GenY is extremely comfortable in a wired world.

GenZ, born after 2000, is the Digital Generation.  They are plugged in to the Internet by handheld devices, remaining connected every moment of their lives.  With so much of the GenZ life centered around the digital domain, a significant percentage prefers socializing online than in real life.  Through IM, text or Mobile phones, their digital connection to the world is essential.  They have access to the World Wide Web 24/7 and information and knowledge at their fingertips.    With a vague memory of such a key event, they are the generation of 9/11 and homeland security.

As technology evolves, so do our communication options and preferences.  Communicating faster, each generation will have vast differences in their communication methods and preferences.  These preferences may create a dividing line between one generation to the next.  Every organization will need to have increased awareness of the potential miscommunication due to generational differences. It will be critical to know the generation and to connect with their preferred style.

*Generations . . .  are deeply influenced and bound together by events of their formative years.  . . . the events that occur at various critical points in the group's lifetime .. . define their core values."

Generation "dates" are approximate and vary by demographer.